On November 22, 2019, I have received a 7-day grounded, only because of few off-topic posts.

I'll quote the relevant parts of the mod messages:

"This is a follow up to the last mod message and the many comments the community have address in relation to using your suspension on the Music Stack Exchange to justify off topic content and comments.

The Music Fans Stack Exchange is a separate entity from the Music Stack Exchange with separate scopes and approaches to their respective Stack Exchange Sites. Being suspended on Music SE does not affect the scope of this site nor allow you to use features like comments or meta posts to try an influence the decisions of Music SE.

Constantly using the Music Fans SE to post content you think works on Music SE, appealing in comments and meta posts to try to get unsuspended from Music SE, and referencing events on Music SE that are unrelated any events/actions on this SE is disruptive to the Music Fan's community and does not affect your situation on the Music SE at all."

This grounded was only a 7-day ban, but the horrifying fact that the length of a grounded increases with every new one gives me extreme fear:

  • 1st grounded: 7 days

  • 2nd grounded: 30 days

  • 3rd grounded: 365 days

  • 4th grounded: 3 or 5 years

  • 5th grounded: Permanent

Moderators, I would like you guys to give me some advice for this and how to improve myself.

  • 7/30/365/3-or-5-yrs/Permaban - giving me the massive terrors... – Maika Sakuranomiya Nov 30 '19 at 6:40
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    Are you planning to get grounded multiple times ? – Bebs Nov 30 '19 at 19:52
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    You need to consider the Community as a whole and not only the mods. You shouldn't require answers from mods only. – Bebs Dec 2 '19 at 8:04
  • @Bebs - I'm not planning to get grounded multiple times... but Dom is saying that I am in the danger of another suspension. – Maika Sakuranomiya Dec 8 '19 at 4:54
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    @Maika_Sakuran0miya Cool formatting trick within the last blockquote. – user45266 Dec 9 '19 at 5:43

You need to listen to mods and the community and not try to get around the system on either this SE or other SEs. This has been the connecting issue on all your suspensions no matter the exact reason. The mod message tells you the specific things you need to be aware of in the post, but I'll go over the more specific events to show you what got us here.

You were first contacted to stop bringing up Music SE issues on Oct 10 via mod message on this site and were asked many time to stop via other comments. The final comment was posted in relation to another meta question you posted on November 17th:

@MaikaSakuranomiya this is your final warning please stop bringing up your suspension on music SE here and using it to try and justify actions. 1. The music SE suspension will not be lifted early. 2. The suspension does not change what is on and off topic on this se. 3. Constantly bringing it up here does nothing but disrupt this community since it has nothing to do with the suspension and can't affect it.

By November 22nd, you had bumped an already closed post that was closed due to it being off-topic and the argument you made was always about Music SE and not this SE. When it was deleted to prevent it from being bumped again, your response was again all about Music SE and not this SE from there you were suspended and this public comment was issued:

@MaikaSakuranomiya And this is the straw that broke the camel's back. Nothing in the question you posted, the answer you gave to that question, and the comment above makes sense on the Music Fan's site. This is not Music SE and you cannot treat it like a secondary Music SE.

Even today, right after your suspension, you are bringing up Music SE issues including trying to get me to delete your account on that SE even though there is a process that needs to be followed that mods don't have any direct influence on. Mods can delete accounts, but this is almost solely for spam/socks not for normal requests for account deletion.

This makes no sense to ask on this SE and shows you are still trying to work around this system and not listening to the mods and the community which asked you to stop bringing up Music SE issues here many times.

So please, listen to the community/mods and don't try and work around the systems in place. If you do this, you should not have a problem on this site.

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